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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Andrew-Cunningham who was born in Cincinnati, Ohio on July 17, 1981 and passed away on January 05, 2008 at the age of 26. Andrew was murdered in a home invasion robbery. One of the men has been sentenced to life in prison and there is another who has not been brought to trial yet. Justice will prevail. We will remember him forever.  He left behind his mother Cheryl,  his Dad Jeff, his loving sister Natashia, his Talented brother Jeremy, his step-dad Doug, his step-brother Dougie Jr.,  nephews, Zachary, Larry Jr., Lijah and Trey, his grandmother Elizabeth and many many loving members of family and friends. Andrew is gone but will not or can not be forgotten. We love and miss you Andrew.

It has been said that time heals all wounds. I do not agree. The wounds remain. In time the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue and the pain 
- Rose Kennedy

We quickly find there are no words to describe the experience of losing a child. For those who have not lost a child, no explanation will do. For those who have, no explanation is necessary.


Woke up with my eyes filled with tears, thinking of my son and how life is filled with such sorrow now. The depression is so hard to hold inside and it worsens with each day that goes by. I feel lost and I don't know which way to turn. Sometimes I just sit here and stare and think of the better days when everyone was here. How does a Mother live like this.? I have a never ending lump in my throat that is always there. Tears ready to flow at any given moment. My heart aches as if I am being suffocated. My interests are gone I cannot concentrate on anything and it overwhelms and consumes my soul. Happiness, what is that now? Why can't I move on? Will it be this way until I die? Lord, why me? Why my son? I just don't understand life and why it is this way. I just don't understand.

 

 

Go ahead and mention my child,

the one that died, you know.

Don't worry about hurting me further,

the depth of my pain doesn't show.

Don't worry about making me cry,

I'm already crying inside.

Help me to heal by releasing the tears,

that I try to hide.

I'm hurting when you just keep silent,

pretending he didn't exist.

I'd rather you mention my child,

knowing that he's been missed.

 

Andrew and Michelle....

 We hope we find justice in this world. The ones who murdered my son are still out there somewhere.  My son was murdered during a home invasion robbery. A senseless murder committed for nothing more than a few dollars. We pray for God to help us find who did this to him.

Our lives have forever changed. We all miss him so much. I don't know how we will get through all the days without you, Andrew. Our family is just not the same. We had no preparation for this. We didn't get to say Goodbye. I long just to hold you one more time and tell you how much you meant to all of us. I miss your face, smile and laughter.

Love, Mom

 Jeremy and Andrew

 

 A Tearful Good-Bye

How do you say good-bye to a child that is so young.
The memories of yesterday when everything went wrong.
As I look upon your picture of the birthday you were there,
It grieves my heart and makes me think that life is just not fair.

Although the Lord knew what He was doing it still makes it hard to accept.
Sometimes it’s hard to handle all the things that life has dealt.
A body so young and tender and a young man had just began to form.
No one could comprehend that you would leave with so much harm.

A nightmare imbedded within our heads of that terrible night.
When Andrew left this earth without no one in sight.
Things that happened in the dark is now coming into the light.
I pray that the final outcome will make everything all right.

Your life touched so many hearts as you walked upon this earth.
Although it was cut short the Father knew this from your birth.
The Angels came to rescue you from the environment that you were in.
So safely in our Father’s arms you are resting once again.

Your happy smile we can’t forget as you ran throughout the house.
Your presence we will always feel from day break until night.
A picture painted within our hearts we will always wear.
We will always love you so and your love we will continue to share.

Love, Mom

Andrew 6wks old


Andrew, Jeremy and Barrett

July 17, 2008

Happy Birthday Sweetheart. This is my first birthday without you and my heart is so sad. I miss the call from you to tell me what you want for your birthday dinner. I won't see that big smile when you walk in the door. I won't hear the laughter from everyone as you always made us laugh. I won't see the sparkle in your eyes when we watch you blow out your candles. I know you are up in Heaven with the rest of our family and I know today will be very special for you celebrating with all the Angels surrounding you. I love you and miss you so much. And thank you Lord for surrounding him with your Love.

Love, Mom

Andrew's 1st Birthday

Jeremy, Nikki, Andrew

Nikki with her new baby brother. She adored him always.

My Child

On the day God took you
I thought that I would die
I wondered where the time went?
I asked alot of whys??
With people all around me
I felt alone inside
From all their words of comfort,
I couldn't seem to hide,
I thought I might be dreaming
That I'd wake and find you here,
I thought 'This can't be happening.'
As I wiped another tear.
On the day that you were laid to rest
My heart broke yet again,
I wondered if the pain would end,
But mostly, I wondered when??
It's hard to be without you,
At times the days seem long,
Sometimes I just sit crying,
When there's really nothing wrong.
I wish we'd had more time,
Before your life was done.
I hope your resting peacefully,
My precious little one.

Jeremy holding his baby brother.

We all miss you so much, it is not the same without you here.

 The Family.

 

 

  I love his smile..........

 

 

 

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Family Tree
Tributes and Condolences
Four Years   / Cheryl Akers (Mom)
As I woke up this morning,  knowing tomorrow will be four years,  the day will go slowly as I try to hold back the tears. My life is changing with each passing day, But his smile etched in my mind can never be taken away. I pray for peace and com...  Continue >>
3 yrs and alot of changes   / Mom
I wish you were here to talk to Andrew. Things have changed so much.  I miss you so much all the time. We still have another trial to get through but I know justice will prevail once again. There is so much I want to say to you but I will wait...  Continue >>
Three Years Today   / Mom
It has been three years today that you were taken from us. How I wish I could turn back the hands of time this is the hardest thing to live through. My heart aches for my you my baby boy. I don't know what tommorrow brings but I am going to start to ...  Continue >>
One year   / Mom (Mother)
It has been one year today and it seems as though you were walking through the door a few days ago. My mind is trying to push me forward, yet with my broken heart time has stood still. I miss you so much, Andrew. We all do. Please ask God to reach do...  Continue >>
The Holidays   / Mom (So sad )
Oh Andrew, I miss you so much. I am trying so hard to get through these difficult days. I pray for comfort and peace. I haven't even been here much lately as I am in a deep depression, I want justice for your murder. I just miss you so badly and it's...  Continue >>
Justice / Mom     Read >>
Justice / Mom     Read >>
Flowing Tears  / Mom     Read >>
Happy Birthday  / Mom     Read >>
~In Remembrance of Andrew~  / Cathy~ Giraud (Friend of Cheryl )    Read >>
miss me but let me go  / Gloria Hale (freind)    Read >>
Understanding My Grief...My Story...  / Mom     Read >>
Xmas Blessings 2010  / Lorraine Mom To Angel Kelli (Connected by angels )    Read >>
Murder Victim Ribbon  / Lorraine Mom To Angel Kelli 73~08 (Connected by angels )    Read >>
A Letter to You  / India Lane (Sister in Christ )    Read >>
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His legacy
His smile  

Andrew is the youngest of three children. He was a beautiful baby when he was born. He had so much black hair when he was born that the nurses would give him a different hairstyle everytime they brought him back from the nursery. He never cried and always smiled.

He was a very loving child and was always so sweet. He cared about all his family and friends.  always willing to help out anyone. He was always the life of the party and always the first to make us all laugh.

 
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